Why are the Bolivian girls so hard to get and how to make it easy?
If you happened to visit Bolivia or to meet Bolivian girls outside of their country, you may start wondering how those exotic lips taste like. Let us share with you some of the knowledge we have!
First of all, there are two different ethnic groups in Bolivia. The bigger part is called Mestizo. Mestizo chicks are half Latin American and half white, and that is a very hot mix. You shall concentrate your efforts on them. The smaller part of the population is indigenous. Unfortunately, these girls are less attractive but if you want a very new experience, you may add them to your list. It’s at your own risk though as indigenous people in Bolivia almost don’t follow the hygiene and live quite a poor life. There is only one reason for this simple, short-minded and hard-working women (or let’s say hard-cleaning and hard-cooking) to have your ways crossed: if she wants a better life and hopes to get married with a foreigner.
Just don’t do anything you used to, for seducing a Bolivian girl. They need a very special approach!
Both groups are Catholic and an older generation is controlling their children in this regard, so girls will feel more peacefully if you tell them you have same beliefs and traditions. Also, if your girl is rather educated and can express her thoughts well, try to get to know how fanatic her family members are in their socialistic views. If you happen to attend the family dinner, you’ll be prepared not to say silly things.
It’s such a pity but your good manners and a gallant behaviour is just a waste of energy here: it’s totally enough if you’re just presenting gifts and feeding her in restaurants. Almost any girl will perceive you as a prince charming who came to rescue her, and will gladly accept your courtship. All Bolivian girls have a common opinion: local men cannot compete with a foreigner. Only some of the girls may be scared by a non-traditional opportunity as it will make their parents angry.
In general, her male relatives are always somewhere around keeping an eye on her. Sex before marriage is something non-desirable and even forbidden. They may run towards you with a knife demanding that you get married to their daughter or sister! Ok not always but pretty often. So try to at least not get her pregnant!
Of course, living in such miserable conditions means that she can be after your money and not your sex appeal or intimate talents. But it depends on her level of education and intellectual development. Girls from less isolated parts of the country can be quite sensual and feminine, if not refined and sophisticated. It depends on your luck and patience! Don’t choose the very first girl who smiles at you and keep on searching: there are some pearls in this swamp. Our advice: search in big cities only. Forget about the rest of country. You can go there as a tourist but not as a girl hunter.
If you finally managed to get a girl here, keep in mind those strange local customs. Don’t expect her to come to your meeting in time and don’t do that either. She may think that you’re pressuring her. She likes sweets a lot as they are considered to be a luxury where she lives; so present her some good sweets. Bolivian women indeed give all their attention to a person they speak with. You should look directly into their eyes and tolerate zero personal space between you and her, otherwise she won’t trust you. Try to learn some basic Spanish words and sentences before you start this adventure – they rarely speak good English.
You will really make her heart melt if you ask many questions about her family members and their health. These girls are very domestic and family oriented, they were simply raised this way. Even if some of them look and behave like Europeans or Americans, it’s only on the surface. In fact, they remain the product of that strict, patriarchal, and problematic society and you cannot change that. Just play your game and enjoy if you can, - only this makes sense.
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